Living own life

Maybe I was being a little harsh on myself and others as well. First, I have to respect myself; second, I will respect people's space; and third, I will work on myself. 

My partner used to tell me that silence is where we find the actual answers. I was escaping from silence and running into specific tasks without even realizing the small mistakes, I was making. I was avoiding facing myself, which was wrong, but he taught me this lesson. 

Actually, backgrounds matter a lot, and I won't deny that. Some people grow up without a mother or father, while others may not have either. We should consider ourselves lucky that our parents have not let us to go through those terrible situations. 

So, if you see the temple passing by, thank god for this beautiful life because other's are begging in the hospital for this healthy life.


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